{"id":1980,"date":"2014-10-01T09:10:01","date_gmt":"2014-10-01T07:10:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kortopsikoloji.com\/dergi\/?p=1980"},"modified":"2014-10-01T09:10:01","modified_gmt":"2014-10-01T07:10:01","slug":"yalnizligimin-dermani-biricik-kankam-tabletim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/yalnizligimin-dermani-biricik-kankam-tabletim\/","title":{"rendered":"YALNIZLI\u011eIMIN DERMANI: “B\u0130R\u0130C\u0130K KANKAM TABLET\u0130M”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Milenyum \u00e7a\u011f \u2018modernizm\u2019 ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda hem \u00e7ocuklara hem de yeti\u015fkinlere bir\u00e7ok g\u00fcncel beklenti empoze ederek d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor. Anneler iyi bir i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131, iyi bir anne ve iyi bir e\u015f olma\u00a0\u00e7abas\u0131 ile ko\u015fu\u015ftururken, babalar ise maddi kaynak sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in uzun toplant\u0131lar, yo\u011fun \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma saatleri, terfi almak i\u00e7in sabahlanan projeler ile \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n bir tempo i\u00e7inde en iyi y\u00f6netici\u00a0olmaya talip.<\/p>\n

Modern d\u00fcnya \u2018en iyi\u2019 olmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini \u015f\u0131k bir bi\u00e7imde bilin\u00e7alt\u0131m\u0131za reklam sekt\u00f6r\u00fc ile usulca kabul ettirdik\u00e7e, hem yeti\u015fkinler hem de \u00e7ocuklar sonu olmayan bir yar\u0131\u015f ve m\u00fccadele i\u00e7inde kendini bulmaktad\u0131r. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, \u00e7ocuklar, ebeveynlerinin arzusunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek amac\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131ftaki en ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131, en \u015f\u0131k, en \u00e7ok kursa giderek en entelekt\u00fcel ve sportif\u00a0olmak zorunda kalarak, minik birer i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131\/i\u015f adam\u0131 gibi, okul, et\u00fct, kurs ve \u00f6zel derslerden olu\u015fan yo\u011fun bir s\u00fcre\u00e7te ko\u015fu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Tablet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 tehlikesi<\/h2>\n
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\u00c7ocuklar kendi ihtiya\u00e7, arzu ve beklentilerine uygun olmayan bir ya\u015famda, ailesini g\u00fcnde birka\u00e7 saat g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bu ko\u015fu\u015fturmada, giderek kendini tek ba\u015f\u0131na hissedebilmektedir. Ebeveynlerin gerek modernizm ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda bizlere miras b\u0131rak\u0131lan k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ebeveynlik rol\u00fcnden uzakla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekse de kendi i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygusal karma\u015fa ve yorgunlu\u011fun darbeleri, ebeveynin \u00e7ocu\u011funa tablet, bilgisayar veya ak\u0131ll\u0131 telefon\u00a0gibi \u00e7ocukla vakit ge\u00e7iren ‘dijital ebeveyni\u2019 sunmas\u0131na neden olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

Tablet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0neden ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar?<\/h2>\n

Ebeveyninin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 stresle ba\u015f etmek amac\u0131 ile kendi ak\u0131ll\u0131 telefonunda oyunlar oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve sanal ortamda payla\u015f\u0131mlar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuk, bu duru\u015fu \u00f6rnek almaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda duygular\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015farken, duygular\u0131n payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131na \u00e7ok izin verilmeyen bu ortamda, kimi zaman b\u0131rak\u0131lma kayg\u0131s\u0131 ve\u00a0bir zorluk ba\u015f\u0131na gelirse ebeveyninin yan\u0131nda olmayaca\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi ile karamsarl\u0131k,\u00a0korku, h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve mutsuzluk deneyimleyebilmektedir. \u00d6zellikle ergenlik d\u00f6neminde, sanal ortam, ergenin \u00e7e\u015fitli maskeler kullanarak sosyal kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fcp kendine sosyal a\u011f kurabildi\u011fi \u2018canl\u0131ym\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na ya\u015fanan\u2019 yeg\u00e2ne ortam haline gelmektedir.<\/p>\n

Tablet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne gibi\u00a0riskler\u00a0do\u011furur?<\/h2>\n

\"580\"<\/a>En b\u00fcy\u00fck riskler, \u00e7ocuk ve ergenin sanal ortamda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilece\u011fi tehlikelerin aile taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131labilmesi, g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilebilmesi ve travmatik olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanma riskidir. \u0130nternet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, aile i\u015flevselli\u011finin bozulmas\u0131, aile ili\u015fkilerinde ya\u015fanan sorunlar ve \u00e7ocuk ile ebeveyn aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011flanma stilinin internet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na vesile olabilen \u00f6nemli etkenler oldu\u011funu g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne sermektedir. Zaman i\u00e7inde ailece yenen ak\u015fam yeme\u011finde yap\u0131lan payla\u015f\u0131mlar ve kurulan yak\u0131nl\u0131k, \u00e7ocuk uyumadan \u00f6nce ailesi ile sevgiyi fiziksel temas, masal okuma ve oyunlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile deneyimlemesi, hafta sonu yap\u0131lan aile gezilerinin ne\u015fesi, t\u00fcm aile \u00fcyeleri ile kalabal\u0131k kutlanan do\u011fum g\u00fcnleri, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki de\u011fi\u015fimlerde (ilk kelimeler, ilk ad\u0131mlar, ilk fl\u00f6rt, yeni okul, yeni arkada\u015flar vb.) birlikte ya\u015fanan heyecan ve mutluluklar\u00a0kaybolmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Tablet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m?<\/h2>\n

\u015eimdiki an, \u015fapkay\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze koyup, geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fclemeyecek manevi kay\u0131plar vermemek ad\u0131na de\u011fi\u015fim yapma zaman\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcme, geli\u015fme ve kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme ser\u00fcvenine heyecanla kat\u0131larak bu ser\u00fcvende ba\u015fkarakterin en b\u00fcy\u00fck destek\u00e7isi olma cesareti g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz an, ya\u015fama g\u00fcvenle bakabilen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n gelece\u011fe umutla y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fc sa\u011flanacak ve d\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fecektir.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocu\u011funuz tablet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olabilir? Tablet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olan \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ne yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2003,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,533],"tags":[537,355,538,539,540],"class_list":["post-1980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cocuk-ergen-psikolojisi","category-ekim2014","tag-cocugum-surekli-ipad-ile-oyunuyor","tag-internet-bagimliligi","tag-ipad-bagimliligi","tag-ipadin-cocuklara-etkileri","tag-tablet-bagimliligi"],"blocksy_meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}