{"id":3224,"date":"2018-04-25T16:39:11","date_gmt":"2018-04-25T14:39:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kortopsikoloji.com\/dergi\/?p=3224"},"modified":"2018-04-25T16:39:11","modified_gmt":"2018-04-25T14:39:11","slug":"bosanma-cocuklara-nasil-soylenmeli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/bosanma-cocuklara-nasil-soylenmeli\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanma \u00c7ocu\u011fa Nas\u0131l Anlat\u0131l\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Bo\u015fanma \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l anlat\u0131l\u0131r?<\/strong> Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 sadece anne babay\u0131 etkileyen bir karar de\u011fildir ve bu s\u00fcrecin \u00e7ocuklar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da do\u011fru ele al\u0131nmas\u0131 ve y\u00f6netilmesi \u00e7ocuk psikolojisi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 ile kar\u0131 kocal\u0131k rollerini sonland\u0131rma karar\u0131 alan pek \u00e7ok sorumlu ve duyarl\u0131 anne-baba bunun \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 en az etkileyece\u011fi yolu bulmak istemekte ve s\u00fcreci bilimsel ve do\u011fru bir y\u00f6ntemle y\u00f6netmek i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekte, endi\u015felenmekte ve s\u00fcre\u00e7lerini do\u011fru y\u00f6netmek ad\u0131na destek almaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em><strong>G\u00f6sterilecek hassasiyet, duyarl\u0131l\u0131k ve do\u011fru at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ad\u0131mlarla bu s\u00fcrecin \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in en az d\u00fczeyde olumsuz etki g\u00f6stermesini sa\u011flamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr !<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>Bo\u015fanma \u00c7ocu\u011fu Nas\u0131l Etkiler?<\/h2>\n<h3>Bo\u015fanman\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l s\u00f6ylenece\u011fi sorusu b\u00fcy\u00fck resmin g\u00f6rece k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 \u00f6ncesinde \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u015fahit oldu\u011fu, do\u011frudan \u015fahit olmasa da sezdi\u011fi ve alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evlilik \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u015fiddeti, i\u00e7eri\u011fi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kurdu\u011fu nedensellik ba\u011flant\u0131lar\u0131, anne ve baban\u0131n ruhsal durumlar\u0131, ebeveynlik i\u015flevlerinin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00fcrece dahil olma d\u00fczeyi bo\u015fanma karar\u0131na gelinen yoldaki \u00f6nemli de\u011fi\u015fkenlerdir.<\/li>\n<li>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131n\u0131n yeti\u015fkin d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndaki geri d\u00f6n\u00fclebilirli\u011fi ve esnekli\u011fi \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in kafa kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olabilir ve olumsuz etkiye yol a\u00e7abilir. Yine bu karar a\u015famas\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015fam\u0131nda meydana gelecek belirsizlikler, anne yada baban\u0131n s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7aresiz, g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz yada \u00e7ok mutsuz alg\u0131lanmas\u0131 da s\u00fcreci olumsuz etkileyebilecek durumlardand\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Tabi ki \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve ergenin ya\u015f\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015f tecr\u00fcbeleri, miza\u00e7 \u00f6zellikleri de b\u00fct\u00fcn bu etkilerin d\u00fczeyinde ve nas\u0131l ya\u015fanaca\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir rol oynar. Her \u00e7ocuk bu s\u00fcre\u00e7ten farkl\u0131 etkilenir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Bo\u015fanma \u00c7ocu\u011fu Nas\u0131l A\u00e7\u0131klanmal\u0131?<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcvende hissetmesi sa\u011flanarak, anne ve babal\u0131k rollerinin devam\u0131n\u0131n vurgusu ile birlikte, olas\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fikliklerden a\u00e7\u0131k ve net \u015fekilde bahsederek aktar\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir.\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Ayn\u0131 zamanda, \u00e7ocu\u011fa s\u00fcre\u00e7te sorumluluk ve su\u00e7luluk, telafi imkan\u0131 ve yeti\u015fkinlerin s\u00fcre\u00e7lerine dahil olma gereksinimi yaratmadan bu aktar\u0131m\u0131n ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilmesi olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bu bilgiler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bo\u015fanma karar\u0131n\u0131n sadece a\u00e7\u0131klanmas\u0131 a\u015famas\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fil, s\u00fcrecin kendisinin \u00f6nemi a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Anne ve baban\u0131n bu s\u00fcreci \u00f6ncelikle kendi \u00f6znel durumlar\u0131 (kendi \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ge\u00e7mi\u015fleri ve aile s\u00fcre\u00e7leri, kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zellikleri ve i\u00e7inde bulunulan d\u00f6neme ait \u00f6zel durumlar) dahilinde bir uzmanla birlikte de\u011ferlendirmeleri ve do\u011fru bir planlama ile hareket etmeleri olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uzman Psikolog \u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Terapisti \u00d6zg\u00fcn K\u0131z\u0131lda\u011f<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bo\u015fanma \u00c7ocu\u011fa Nas\u0131l Anlat\u0131l\u0131r, \u00e7ocuklar bo\u015fanmadan nas\u0131l etkilenir? Boianma s\u00fcrecini do\u011fru y\u00f6netmek sizin elinizde !<\/p>","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5531,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[384,61,615,616,617,44,93,175,82],"class_list":["post-3224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cocuk-ergen-psikolojisi","tag-ayrilik","tag-bosanma","tag-bosanma-cocuga-nasil-anlatilir","tag-bosanma-cocugu-nasil-aciklanmali","tag-bosanma-cocugu-nasil-etkiler","tag-cocuk","tag-ergen","tag-psikolog","tag-psikoloji"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":8}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3224"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3224\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5531"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}