{"id":5400,"date":"2013-07-02T11:50:54","date_gmt":"2013-07-02T09:50:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kortopsikoloji.com\/dergi\/?p=1102"},"modified":"2013-07-02T11:50:54","modified_gmt":"2013-07-02T09:50:54","slug":"kisa-kisa-16","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/kisa-kisa-16\/","title":{"rendered":"KISA KISA"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>\u00c7OCUKLA SA\u011eLIKLI \u0130LET\u0130\u015e\u0130M<\/h4>\n<p>Uzmanlar\u0131m\u0131zdan Klinik Psikolog Amber Dalmaz Urfal\u0131, aileler i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile olan ileti\u015fimlerine dair baz\u0131 sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlad\u0131 (Haz\u0131rlayan: Gizem De\u011firmenci)<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anne olman\u0131n avantajlar\u0131 ve dezavantajlar\u0131 nelerdir?<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u0130\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131nda motive olan anne, \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla daha kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irir.<\/li>\n<li>\u0130\u015f doyumuna ula\u015fan anne, \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla sa\u011flam ili\u015fkiler y\u00fcr\u00fctme avantaj\u0131na sahiptir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan annenin stresli olmas\u0131\u00a0 \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla olan ili\u015fkisini y\u0131prat\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan annenin e\u015finden destek alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlarda \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla olan ileti\u015fimi olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkilenir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>\u0130lkokul d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yaz aylar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirece\u011fine dair ailelere neler s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz?<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Aile, ilkokul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yaz tatilinde d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p oynamas\u0131na izin vermelidir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuk olman\u0131n en \u00f6nemli \u00f6zelli\u011fi olan \u2018oyun oynamak\u2019 aileler taraf\u0131ndan engellenmemelidir.<\/li>\n<li>D\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p oyun oynayan \u00e7ocuklar, aileler taraf\u0131ndan bask\u0131lanmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>\u0130dealize edilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocuk, parklardan uzak tutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00fckemmelliyet\u00e7i ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na serbest oyun zamanlar\u0131 b\u0131rakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmelidir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Gen\u00e7lere \u00fcniversiteye giri\u015f, SBS ve benzeri gibi \u00f6nemli s\u0131navlar sonras\u0131nda nas\u0131l yakla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>S\u0131navdan sonra gen\u00e7ler soru ya\u011fmuruna tutulmak yerine tarafs\u0131zca dinlenmelidir.<\/li>\n<li>Ailenin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepkisi, s\u0131nav sonras\u0131 stres bo\u015fal\u0131m\u0131 ya\u015fayan gen\u00e7leri olumsuz etkiler.<\/li>\n<li>\u00d6zellikle s\u0131nav\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc ge\u00e7en gen\u00e7lere bu durum s\u00fcrekli hat\u0131rlat\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>E\u015fler bo\u015fanmaya karar verdiklerinde bunu \u00a0\u00e7ocuklar\u0131na nas\u0131l s\u00f6ylemesi en uygun olur?<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 alan ebeveynler, problemin \u00e7ocukta olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 en ba\u015fta a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a vurgulamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Bo\u015fanma, anne baban\u0131n kendilerini haz\u0131r hissettikleri zaman \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na beraber bildirmeleri gereken bir karard\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 alan \u00e7ift, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczmemek ve k\u0131zd\u0131rmamak ad\u0131na yersiz bir \u00e7aba i\u00e7ine girmemelidir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7iftler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bo\u015fanma karar\u0131n\u0131 bildirdikten sonra ona ayr\u0131ca hayatlar\u0131nda nelerin de\u011fi\u015fece\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131 gerekir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>INTERNET BA\u011eIMLILI\u011eI: SANAL ALEMDE YA\u015eAM<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Gizem De\u011firmenci<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cIss\u0131z bir adaya d\u00fc\u015ferseniz yan\u0131n\u0131za alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z 3 \u015fey ne olur?\u201d sorusuna verilen yan\u0131tlar uzun y\u0131llardan beri pop\u00fclerli\u011fini devam ettiriyor. Ancak zaman de\u011fi\u015fip teknoloji denilen kavram ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n vazge\u00e7ilmez bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olunca, belirledi\u011fimiz liste de s\u00fcrekli de\u011fi\u015fiyor. \u015eu an belki de pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fi i\u00e7in listenin ba\u015f\u0131nda cep telefonlar\u0131, bilgisayar, ipod, playstation ve esas bu teknoloji \u00fcr\u00fcnlerini canl\u0131 tutan INTERNET geliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Teknoloji ve \u0130nternet\u2019in ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kolayl\u0131k ve \u00e7e\u015fitlili\u011fi yads\u0131mak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Ancak madalyonun bir de \u00f6teki y\u00fcz\u00fc var. Bir \u015fey ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k haline geldi\u011finde avantajlar dezavantajlara ve sorunlara yenik d\u00fc\u015febiliyor. Hayal edebilece\u011finiz en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f grubundan yeti\u015fkinlere, hatta ya\u015fl\u0131lara kadar uzanan Internet kullan\u0131m yayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde az\u0131msanamayacak kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kitleye hitap ediyor. \u00d6zellikle de 12- 18 ya\u015f grubu gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir risk fakt\u00f6r\u00fc <a href=\"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/ID-10054844.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1103\" src=\"http:\/\/kortopsikoloji.com\/dergi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/ID-10054844-216x300.jpg\" alt=\"ID-10054844\" width=\"216\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>olabilece\u011fine dair ara\u015ft\u0131rma verileri mevcut. D\u00fcnyada tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lmaz g\u00fcc\u00fcyle \u2018sofistike teknoloji arac\u0131\u2019 olarak tan\u0131mlanan \u0130nternet\u2019e hangi noktada ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 kal\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorusu pek \u00e7ok uzman taraf\u0131ndan yan\u0131tlanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Genel kan\u0131ya g\u00f6re ki\u015fi, \u0130nternet kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sonland\u0131rmak isteyip yine de devam ediyorsa,\u00a0 \u0130nternet\u2019i olumsuz duygulardan- \u00f6zellikle de yaln\u0131zl\u0131ktan ka\u00e7mak i\u00e7in bir ara\u00e7 olarak kullan\u0131yorsa, sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli erteliyorsa, \u0130nternet\u2019te daha uzun s\u00fcre ba\u011fl\u0131 kalmak i\u00e7in \u00e7evresindekilere yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsa, t\u00fcm bu etkilere ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkilerde, okul ve i\u015fle ilgili sorunlar ya\u015f\u0131yorsa,\u00a0 \u0130nternetten uzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman ya da kullan\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7inde h\u0131zl\u0131 duygulan\u0131m de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri ya\u015f\u0131yorsa \u0130nternet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan s\u00f6z edilebilir. Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k derecelerinin ki\u015fiden ki\u015fiye, \u00f6zellikle de ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerine g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fi bilinir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n tedavi s\u00fcre\u00e7lerinde oldu\u011fu gibi \u0130nternet\u2019e ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131kta da bireyin ve ailenin konuyla ilgili bilgilendirilmesi, fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n sa\u011flanmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r. \u015eayet bir \u0130nternet ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 uzman taraf\u0131ndan belirlenmi\u015fse, bu noktada uzman, \u00e7e\u015fitli psikolojik ve psikoe\u011fitsel yakla\u015f\u0131mlarla \u00e7e\u015fitli m\u00fcdahalelerden yararlanabilir. Uzman,\u00a0 \u00f6ncelikli olarak ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturan temel unsurlar\u0131 saptar, sonras\u0131nda belirli bir program dahilinde uygun psikolojik deste\u011fi sa\u011flar. Unutulmamas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli noktalardan biri, sa\u011flanan yard\u0131m\u0131n\u00a0 temel hedefinin \u0130nternet kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 tamamiyle b\u0131rakmak de\u011fil,\u00a0 kontroll\u00fc kullanmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7OCUKLA SA\u011eLIKLI \u0130LET\u0130\u015e\u0130M Uzmanlar\u0131m\u0131zdan Klinik Psikolog Amber Dalmaz Urfal\u0131, aileler i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile olan ileti\u015fimlerine dair baz\u0131 sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlad\u0131 (Haz\u0131rlayan: Gizem De\u011firmenci) \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anne olman\u0131n avantajlar\u0131 ve dezavantajlar\u0131 nelerdir? \u0130\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131nda motive olan anne, \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla daha kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irir. \u0130\u015f doyumuna ula\u015fan anne, \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla sa\u011flam ili\u015fkiler y\u00fcr\u00fctme avantaj\u0131na sahiptir. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan annenin stresli olmas\u0131\u00a0 \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla olan [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":6714,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[47,353],"tags":[60,217,354,63,355,356],"class_list":["post-5400","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisa-kisa","category-temmuz-2013","tag-bagimlilik","tag-cocukla-iletisim","tag-iletisim-bozuklugu","tag-internet","tag-internet-bagimliligi","tag-psikolojik-destek"],"blocksy_meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5400","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5400"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5400\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6714"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5400"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5400"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korto.com.tr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5400"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}